Conflict Management & Resolution in Schools
Conflict is a natural part of any school environment, arising from differences in perspectives, behaviours, and expectations.
Left unmanaged, conflict can undermine morale, damage relationships, and create a stressful or toxic atmosphere. However, when handled skillfully, conflict can strengthen collaboration, build understanding, and improve problem-solving among staff and pupils.
Most school staff encounter conflict in various forms—staff-to-staff, teacher-to-pupil, pupil-to-pupil, or parent-to-staff. This course equips participants with practical strategies, techniques, and tools to manage and resolve conflict effectively, reducing stress, improving relationships, and fostering a positive school culture.
Many strategies are adaptable for use with pupils, including engaging activities and games that teach constructive conflict resolution.
Session 1 – Understanding Conflict
• Defining conflict and identifying common causes in schools
• Exploring personal conflict styles
• Recognising behaviours that escalate or de-escalate conflict
Session 2 – Managing Your Personal Response
• Recognising personal reactions: body, voice, and emotions
• Managing stress: diaphragmatic breathing, tension release, engaging senses
• Building emotional awareness: self-awareness and social-awareness exercises
• Developing empathy: 8 practical strategies, class activities and games
Session 3 – Conflict Management Strategies
• Understanding the phases of conflict
• Skills to employ: slowing down, cooperative language, non-judgemental
responses, managing body language
• Using the CICASS system: Control, Identify, Connect, Acknowledge,
Summarise, Solution
• Managing challenging behaviour: addressing violence, inappropriate actions,
and escalation
Session 4 – Applying CICASS in School Situations
• Staff/Parent conflicts: techniques for communication and resolution
• Staff/Staff conflicts: mediation, managing past issues, cooperative
approaches
• Teacher/Pupil conflicts: escalation prevention, involving appropriate parties
• Pupil/Pupil conflicts: 6-step resolution plan, class activities, and games
Session 5 – Conflict Prevention and Reduction
• Implementing policies and clear communication to reduce conflict
• Between staff: dialogue, understanding roles, leveraging complementary
styles, providing feedback
• With parents: guides for positive interaction and communication
• With pupils: clear rules, safe spaces, teaching conflict resolution skills,
modelling behaviour, and using calm corners
Outcomes - By the end of the course, participants will:
• Understand the causes and types of conflict in a school environment
• Recognise personal conflict styles and manage their own responses
• Apply practical strategies to de-escalate and resolve conflict
• Use the CICASS system effectively in a variety of school situations
• Prevent conflict through clear communication, modelling, proactive policies
• Equip pupils with conflict resolution skills through activities and games
• Foster a positive, respectful, and collaborative school culture
This course ensures staff are confident in managing, resolving, and preventing conflict, improving relationships, reducing stress, and creating a supportive learning and working environment.

“Thanks for the excellent Conflict Management training course. I learnt a lot” SW, Finton House School